Motivation for this change

• Created libcanberra without GTK since libraries usually do not need the GTK modules.
• Dropped some unnecessary dependencies.
• More clean-ups.
• Try to drop some gtk2 dependencies Use GTK3 by default where applicable #18559

Things done

• Tested using sandboxing (nix.useSandbox on NixOS, or option build-use-sandbox in nix.conf on non-NixOS)
• Built on platform(s)
  • NixOS
  • macOS
  • other Linux distributions
• Tested via one or more NixOS test(s) if existing and applicable for the change (look inside nixos/tests)
• Tested compilation of all pkgs that depend on this change using nix-shell -p nox --run "nox-review wip"
• Tested execution of all binary files (usually in ./result/bin/)
• Fits CONTRIBUTING.md.