Work around an epoll quirk where it sometimes reports just the EPOLLERR
or EPOLLHUP event.  In order to force the event loop to move forward,
we merge in the read/write events that the watcher is interested in;
uv__read() and uv__write() will then deal with the error or hangup in
the usual fashion.

Fixes #982.

This is a back-port of commit 24bfef2 from the master branch.

When fd is closed and new one (with the same number) is opened inside
kqueue/epoll/port loop's callback - stale events might invoke callbacks
on wrong watchers.

Check if watcher was changed after invocation and invalidate all events
with the same fd.

fix #826

Fake watcher list and count should be preserved only if
`loop->watchers` was already allocated.

Conflicts:
	build.mk
	src/unix/core.c
	src/unix/darwin.c